Thank you for this article! If I read the word 'narcissist' once more I'm going to scream. According to Medium (and Twitter, and Reddit, and self-help books, and plenty of other places), everyone around you is a narcissist. Your partner is loving and affectionate? Careful - it's 'love-bombing', a narcissistic trait. Your partner doesn't express his feelings much? He's narcissist who's afraid of real intimacy. Lots of sex? Narcissist. Zero sex? Narcissist. Plenty of friends, loved by everyone? Raging narcissist. Loner? Covert narcissist. Calm and collected? Narcissist. Aggressive and unstable? Narcissist. I swear to God.